tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1467905502278598565.post4375887710635130718..comments2023-06-27T04:58:40.299-07:00Comments on Polar's Page: When thinking of yourself last is genetic...Polar's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10714065039614278619noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1467905502278598565.post-52635974878702364732010-09-07T18:55:46.282-07:002010-09-07T18:55:46.282-07:00Thanks for the recipe, Allan, I do like Ahi! If y...Thanks for the recipe, Allan, I do like Ahi! If you have any blackened fish recipes, let me know.<br /><br />Thanks for visiting, Lala, feel free to come on back whenever.<br /><br />Polar's MomPolar's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10714065039614278619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1467905502278598565.post-73338298955728281652010-09-07T10:53:19.644-07:002010-09-07T10:53:19.644-07:00Different thing entirely...
How to sear tuna !!
F...Different thing entirely...<br />How to sear tuna !!<br /><br />First, heat the skillet on very high heat. When it gets hot, add the 2 TBS olive oil.<br />Meanwhile, salt and pepper each side of the tuna. Place tuna in the hot skillet. With a 1" thick slice of tuna, allow the slice to cook (you'll know because it turns white) about 1/4" deep. Immediately turn it over, and repeat cooking another 1/4" deep. Remove from the heat and plate. <br />That is allAllanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09420487075450683028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1467905502278598565.post-19383505961403436212010-09-06T21:43:08.630-07:002010-09-06T21:43:08.630-07:00Thanks for coming to visit my blog!
That is a re...Thanks for coming to visit my blog! <br /><br />That is a really tough situation for your mother, but I'm glad that you recognize that the tendency to never say no has destructive consequences. I hope your mom finds a bit more balance for herself and I am glad you are asking those important questions of yourself.Lalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17940908179423814031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1467905502278598565.post-52747574690674741672010-09-06T09:59:23.880-07:002010-09-06T09:59:23.880-07:00Margene and Lanie-Thank you so much for your well ...Margene and Lanie-Thank you so much for your well wishes and votes of confidence, I really appreciate the sentiments. I will check out that book and the United Way-and *gently* pass that info on to Mom.<br /><br />Polar's MomPolar's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10714065039614278619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1467905502278598565.post-69962427361948723672010-09-06T03:37:11.736-07:002010-09-06T03:37:11.736-07:00I hope you will choose to take care of yourself, k...I hope you will choose to take care of yourself, knowing that a strong healthy you can take the best care of others. <br /><br />You are in a difficult situation for sure. We took my mom in for 2 years and luckily for us she decided to move back in with her favorite before she got too bad. Selfish of me? Maybe - but I am not a nurse, never wanted to be one and never intend to be one. If that makes me a bad daughter, I chalk it up to bad parenting. It's not that I don't have compassion for my mom and her other daughter, but my daughter, husband and self have to come first.<br /><br />You and your mom are wonderful people to be able to do this for your grandmother. I think the boundaries books sounds like it would be helpful. You can't let grandma rule your life. Call United Way and see if there are any respite programs that your mom could take advantage of in your community - or even go on their website. <br /><br />Good luck!Laniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15438241075767655180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1467905502278598565.post-14420483945193550272010-09-05T22:43:56.568-07:002010-09-05T22:43:56.568-07:00Hi there.. just popped by and wanted to say hello....Hi there.. just popped by and wanted to say hello. I just read this post and although I do not know you at all, (and you don't know me), I have many friends that are similar in "pleasing" others and struggle with saying "no".. in fact, my hubby is like that. A great book to read is called "Boundaries" by Cloud and John Townsend. I had a therapist recommend it to me and it really is good at clarifying issues like this. <br />I also wanted to wish you good luck on your health journey! I hope you are able to take care of yourself and that somehow your mother gets a break! God Bless!!<br /><br />~MargeneMom to the Fourth Powerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10091089683550035826noreply@blogger.com